The Ins and Outs of Gay Sex
by Stephen E. Goldstone
from Dell
Finally--the book for every gay man's bedside table.
At last! Answers to the questions you're too embarrassed to ask--but always wanted to know!
Why does it hurt down there?  Is it really safe to do that?    What does it mean when something looks like this--and how do I make it go away?
Chances are you never learned anything about gay intimacy from your parents, your school, or your family physician.  Here, at last, is reliable, comprehensive information on a wide spectrum of gay medical concerns, written by an eminent surgeon and recognized authority on gay health issues.
With up-to-date facts, interviews, and case studies from the author's practice, The Ins and Outs of Gay Sex goes far beyond HIV concerns, combining a complete education about the safe and pleasurable practices of male-male sexuality with a comprehensive medical volume.
Here are the facts about what you need to know to keep your sex life hot and healthy, including:
The rules of safe anorectal stimulation.
Symptoms to send you running to the doctor.
Foreplay, sex toys, and other accessories.
Viral and nonviral STDs-don't wake up with an unpleasant surprise!
Treatments for impotence and other sexual dysfunctions.
Diseases that can be spread without penetration.
Drugs...relationships...doctors (how to find the right one for you), and much more.
The Family Jewels: A Guide to Male Genital Play and Torment
by Hardy Haberman
from Greenery Press (CA)
The Gay Man's Kama Sutra
by Terry Sanderson
from Thomas Dunne Books
Wheter you are in a long-term partnership, an open relationship, or are enjoying a life of sexual freedom, this book offers invaluable advice for a happy, healthy, and satisfying sex life. Evey aspect of gay sex is explored--from oral congress and masturbation to anal sex and fetishes--and important issues such as finding a partner, emotional problems, and safe sex are also included.
Ultimate Gay Sex
by Michael Thomas Ford
from DK ADULT
Elegant, sexy, provocative, and infinitely informative, this richly illustrated manual celebrates and explores every aspect of gay sex in over 300 photographs, from coming out, cruising, kinks, and one-night stands to staying healthy, finding a partner, and nurturing a relationship. Although the author never shies away from tough issues in gay life, he focuses on all the delightful permutations of good sex, including a range of exciting positions, many of them photographed for the first time.
Tantra for Gay Men
by Bruce Anderson
from Alyson Books
Western cultures have often thought of the ancient practice of tantra as a form of super-sex. However, as scholar and teacher Bruce Anderson makes clear in this first guide for gay men to the art of tantra, it is actually a rigorous practice that harnesses sexual energy as fuel for spiritual development. In eight empowering chapters, Anderson explores and explains the spiritual concepts that practitioners must fully integrate into their lives before experiencing the transformative effects of tantra.
Readers will be guided through the process of incorporating Tantric philosophy and practices into their sexual and spiritual through multiple excercises on:
Bruce Anderson's astute and unaffected approach to both the technical and spiritual elements of tantra will allow gay men to enhance the power of their lovemaking and the strength of their orgasms to reach a state of cosmic bliss.
Bruce Anderson has studied with Amazonian and Plains Indian shamans as well as Tibetan, East Indian, and Egyptian tantra teachers. He is a third-level cobra breath practitioner and teaches the class "Tantra for Men" at the Los Angeles Gay and Lesbian Center's Village at Ed Gould Plaza.
Gay Sex: A Manual for Men Who Love Men, Second Edition
by Jack Hart
from Alyson Books
We live in a world obsessed with (and appalled by) sex. Open any magazine--certainly any gay male magazine--and you will find it clogged with sexualized images. But a fundamental, hardcore American puritanism still prevents open, honest, and useful discussions of sexuality. While this is true for heterosexuality, it is even more so for gay men and lesbians. Jack Hart's Gay Sex is a fine, witty, and eminently reasonable guide to being a sexually active gay man in the world today. Like Felice Picano and Charles Silverstein's The New Joy of Gay Sex (a classic in the field), Hart's book is an all-purpose guide to living a sexually energetic and fulfilling life. Gay Sex gives gay men all they need to know, from tips on how to meet men (in bars, on the Net, in the street) to negotiating safe sex (from talking to finding the right condom) to dealing with relationships (be it sex-buddy or monogamous). There are also discussions on the mental-health aspects of masturbation, fantasy, dating, bondage, S/M, recreational drugs, role-playing, and general physical well-being. Hart's writing is clear, concise, and informative; he never overloads the reader with too much scientific information or confusing detail and never adopts a patronizing or moralizing tone. By treating sex as a vital and exhilarating aspect of everyday life, he manages to both introduce these topics to the novice in unthreatening and helpful ways and inform and enlighten those who have been out and about for years. --Michael Bronski
Classic text with illustrations of gay sex. "This is a succinct and thorough encyclopedia of sexual information . . . . Author Jack Hart leavens his no-nonsense, nonjudgmental, AIDS-conscious descriptions and definitions with relaxingly sly humor and refreshingly clear-headed prose; the result is a highly readable primer of valuable how-to hints. . . ".--Richard Labonte, in THE ADVOCATE.
Leathersex: A Guide for the Curious Outsider and the Serious Player
by Joseph W. Bean
from Daedalus Publishing Company
Everyone wants a more interesting and fulfilling erotic life. With that in mind, this book was written to give guidance to one popular style of erotic play which the author calls "leathersex"-sexuality that may include S/M, bondage, dominance, submission, fantasy, role playing, sensual physical stimulation, and fetish, to name just a few. If you are simply curious about leathersex, or if you already enjoy its pleasures but want to learn more, this book is for you!
101 Gay Sex Secrets Revealed
by Jonathan Bass
from Alyson Books
Hey guys, listen up. You may think you're the shiznitz in the sack, but word on the street is, you ain't all that. No worries though, we're here to help. Even those of you who picked up your technique from a Falcon Pac can be saved by this book. From foreplay to role playing, 100 percent homo-tested and boyfriend-approved, everything in this book is designed to keep em coming back for more. So buy this book. You will be legend. No, no, don't thank us. Buy us a drink and show us what you've learned.
Jonathan Bass is a Los Angeles-based writer and he has an unlisted number. Sorry.
The Ultimate Guide to Strap-On Sex: A Complete Resource for Women and Men
by Karlyn Lotney
from Cleis Press
The Leatherman's Handbook II
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